Help! I have feelings for my deceased friend's husband.

Dating a widower you knew before he was widowed? What should you do if you have feelings for your deceased friend's husband? Are there certain red flags to look for? Is it common for widowers do date women the know for work or social circles before their wife died?

In this video Abel Keogh answers the questions from a reader who is attracted to her deceased friend's husband. He also discusses how common it is for widowers to date someone they knew before the late wife died and what, if any, red flags you should look for before dating a man you knew before his wife died.

Help! My Widowed Father is Dating too Soon After Mom Died.

This video is for adult children of widowers or those who have adult children who object to their father's new relationship. What do you do when you're widowed father starts dating soon after your mother passes away? Does it mean he didn't love his wife or that their marriage was a sham? What if you think the woman he's dating is taking advantage of him? In this video, Abel Keogh answers these questions and discusses some tips and tricks of dealing with the emotional situations for everyone involved.

How to Make New Memories with a Widower

Often widowers take their new love to the same restaurants, vacation spots, and trips as they went on with the late wife. Though sometimes this can be a red flag, it's usually a widower relying on old habits instead of making new memories. Is it possible to convince a widower to try new things? In this video, Abel Keogh discusses ways you can talk to the widower about making new memories, visiting new places, and trying new things that don't have the shadow of relationships past.

When do You Give Widowers a Second Chance?

Many women break up with widowers only to have the widower come crawling back and asking for a second chance. What do you do when this happens? In this video Abel Keogh teaches you vital widower psychology so you can know if the widower has really changed or if he's looking to take advantage of you all over again.

How Can a Widower Know He's in Love Again?

With so many confusing emotions that come with losing a spouse and dating again, widowers can find it difficult to know when they're in love again. Thankfully, it's not that difficult for widowers to know when they've found someone that they can spend the rest of their life with. In this video Abel Keogh explains the sure-fire way widowers, and those who are dating them, can know that they've found love a second time.

Widowers and Marriage

There are widowers who say they have no desire to get married again. Are they telling the truth? What should a woman who’s dating or living with a widower do if she wants to get married but the widower says marriage is "just a piece of paper"?

In this Widower Wednesday video, Abel Keogh walks you through some steps you can take in order to evaluate how serious the widower is about his refusal to marry again and what you should do if you want to get married but the widower refuses to tie the knot.

What My Kids Said about Where to Bury the Second Wife

I came home the other day and found my kids watching the Widower Wednesday video about where to bury the second wife. Find out their reaction to that video as well as my wife's opinion on the burial issue. And in the end you'll see how their thoughts and opinions gave me a different perspective on where to be buried.

What I did on the Anniversary of my Late Wife's Passing

Widowers often ask Abel what they should do, if anything, to honor their late wife on their date of death. Women dating widowers often ask what their place is in a day that can be emotional for everyone. In this video, Abel Keogh shares what he did on November 10, 2018--the 17th anniversary of his late wife's death. He shares this as a guide for what other widows and widowers can do to in hopes that it make make these anniversaries less painful and more fulfilling.

Should Widows and Widowers Date Each Other?

With all the problems women experience dating widowers, many have asked whether widows and widowers are more suited for each other. In this Widower Wednesday video, Abel Keogh discusses whether widows and widowers should date each other and what they both need to do if their relationship is going to succeed.

What Does a Widower Mean when He Says, Part II

Sometimes widowers say the darndest things. Knowing what they're really saying can be difficult. But with a little widower psychology 101 you can know what a widower is really saying. In this video, Abel Keogh gives you the tools you need to interpret the following statements:

• "I don't want to get married again."

• "I don't want to erase the late wife from the house."

• "I want to take things slow."

• "Moving on is very emotional for me."

• And more!