A viewer writes: Abel, I agree relationships need to be reevaluated and you shouldn’t expect a new spouse to just plunge into the deceased position socially or family wise. However, when it comes to hobbies and passions, where does requesting to start a new life end? For example, if they enjoy working out or running and that’s something the they shared with their deceased partner, does that mean I’m not allowed to continue with those activities or share them with my new love? If Julie asked you not ot write a book because your late wife, Krista, enjoyed writing, would you do it? Is that part of the price you have to pay for a new life?