5 Ways to Stop Living in the Past

Living in the past is toxic for any relationship. Whether you're a widower or dating a widower, holding on to memories or grudges will destroy even the strongest relationships. In this video relationship coach and widower expert Abel Keogh discuss 5 things widowers and those who are dating them can do to live in the present and embrace the future.

How to Stop Comparing Yourself to the Late Wife

One of the biggest challenges that come with dating a widower is comparing yourself to the late wife. This isn't easy especially when the deceased are often held up as angels and saints. In this video, relationship coach and widower expert Abel Keogh discusses some tips and tricks that can help you focus on what makes you unique and wonderful and see yourself as the widower sees you.


The Secret of Successful Widower Relationships

Later this month, me and Julianna will celebrate our 17th wedding anniversary. This has made me think about why some widower relationships succeed and others fail. Throughout countless coaching sessions and emails, there's one thing that usually predicts whether a widower relationship sinks or swims. In this video, I’ll discusses the one thing it takes to make a relationship with a widower work.