Went to the dark place...

Went to the dark place, pushed through the pain, and completed the Timp Half Marathon in 1:41:09 (7:43 per mile pace).

And, yes, would run it again.

Drama Ensues After Woman Finds Out How Husband Refers to His Late Wife

I was extensively quoted in the article below. Scroll for excerpt. You can read the entire Bored Panda article here.

Excerpt:

Relationship coach and the expert on dating and marrying a widower Abel Keogh says that calling his late spouse “my wife” implies that he’s still married to the deceased person. “If a widower is going to mention their deceased spouse, they should use that person’s first name or they should say ‘late wife’ to clarify that they’re talking about a deceased individual,” he explains.

“Using the term ‘my wife’ in conversation often causes confusion and resentment,” he notes. “If the widower is with his new girlfriend and begins using the term ‘my wife,’ those he’s talking to might think he’s talking about the girlfriend instead of his deceased spouse.”

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“The new spouse has NO obligation to uphold the memory of the late wife,” he emphasizes. “They can do so if they choose, but upholding a memory of the late wife usually makes the living wife feel like second best.”

Read whole article here.

RIP Gracie

RIP Gracie. You ran until you couldn’t. Thanks for the miles and memories. Will take a long run with you again in the next life.